What No One Tells You About Being Assaulted

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What No One Tells You About Being Assaulted

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  1. I was allowed to be sexually assaulted by a gay man in the Navy. I was not really aware of what had happened either. My cell phone was accessed by someone or somebodies who threatened personal harm to me if I did not comply. I wanted to press charges but was told by an unknown assailent, that if I did not one would believe me. They would violate my probation, and say I was a violent offender. Through my phone they told me they would say I used and sold drugs, they’d say I was a pedophile and could at any moment plant 800 files of kiddie porn in my phone, and they’d destroy my credit. I wanted to get rid of the phone but if I did, I’d have thrown away the only evidence that could save me. It was an incredibly terrify situation. It was like a conspiracy nightmare, the people who did it affiliated with Fox News station. During this attack because it was, they claimed there News station was hacked into. I complied with demands except for one. I had say I agreed to sexually acts with someone. Which I did not, I felt incredibly guilty because the truth is I did not concent but I feel I should have able to have stopped it before it got out of hand like it did. I did not concent, and because of this experience I lost everything. My phone screen was being manipulated like when you give the computer company permission to access your device to install software or fix a issue. It was like that but on my cell phone and I had not idea who they were, I have better understanding now. I’m sorry these people were victimized, it is a violating helpless feeling. Embarrassing and negative in all aspects. Good luck and God bless you.

  2. It happened to me even though I was eleven. Even though I hadn't gone through puberty. Even though it was with someone I thought I could trust. Even though I wasnt wearing revealing clothing. Even though I prayed that it would stop. Even though I thought it would never happen to me.

  3. When I first saw you I didn’t know. When I first felt you I didn’t know. Once you first told me I stayed quiet. When you first touched me I shut my mouth. When you told me it’s normal I believed you. And when you finally left me in pieces I could never put myself back together.

  4. I remember a sleepover with all of my friend and I, all female and I remember sitting there. After a long talk someone brought up sexual assault in which one by one of them confessed about being a victim. Never would I have imagined that a 1/2 of the girls in my class, not including that guys, that was exponential as well, would have been sexually assaulted by 13. When will this world change?

  5. I'm fourteen and have been sexually assaulted it was actually in October and it was one of my rare good days. I was in Walmart with my mother wearing a pair of jeans and a crop top that showed less than a centimeter of skin my mom noticed a man was following us but said nothing of it not wanting to alarm me since I already have PTSD from previous events. We just got in the long checkout line and it was very crowded this man at least 60+ years old rubbed himself against me I thought nothing of it, I said excuse me and moved more towards my mom thinking it was just an accident since it was crowded. He continued staring at me watching me and my mom looked at me and I said he accidentally rubbed against me that's when she went full alarm I remember standing in that line while employees and the manager ask me questions and security look for the man while people around us listen in looking at me in shame I was so embarrassed. I was so thankful I wasn't alone but at the same time, I was upset because it still happened. Sitting in my car with my mom I looked at her and I was angry because no matter what I was wearing the way I walked or the way I talked I shouldn't have experienced that. I still haven't let myself take in what happened that day.

  6. i was sexually assaulted twice, first time 2 years ago and the second a year ago. recently i had a friend who kept trying to touch me and kiss me when i kept repeating no , he wouldn’t listen to me and the minute i got home , all i was reminded of was the trauma. now i can’t eat or sleep , i dream of being sexually assaulted every night but different versions of the situation. i have lost my peace of mind once again and im struggling to find it back. i don’t know what to do or how to help my mind feel at ease.

  7. Im sad because I reported the man who sexually assaulted me and he didnt go to jail. He got away with it.
    I dont know what to do, I'm suffering from what he has done to me. Hes carrying on as if nothing has happened.

    I cant stop crying. He ruined me. He ruined my life. He took my body .

    Everything is going down hill. I'm failing all my classes, I lost my job all from depression and PTSD experienced by all of this. I hate the monster who did this to me.

    I was more hurt by the smile and him laughing when he was told hes not guilty. He looked right at me and once again too power over me. Hes living his life happy he got away with sexually assaulting me.

    I will never be the same person again

  8. i am a 14 year old girl and i know how it feels to get sexually assulted… i got bullied everyday at school bc of it…. but my heart goes out to the ones who were sexually assulted it wasn't your fault…. keep your head up and stay strong

  9. assaulted by my own step-brothers when i was little, was ignored by my step-mum and dad, i couldn't even bring myself to tell my mum until this year. I buried those memories for years, then they came back out and crushed me, but finally i can stop thinking about it all the time. When something happens to you, tell people until someone listens.

  10. that happened to me when I was 15 and when I was 16 and when I asked my brother why did you do that he said it's ok im your brother and when he first did that he Said don't tell mom beacuse he was scared even though he knew it was wrong and I wanna revenge I wanna ruin his life just like he did when I was young because he used to hit me and twist my arm because he thought that I was doing wrong things that I shouldn't do guys plz help me I need someone to talk to 😭😭😭😔

  11. It happened to me countless times between the ages of 10 to 12 by a family member I feel like it's partly my fault. I'm 19 now and I still think vividly about it, i struggle a lot trusting people. It's the first time I opened up about this.

  12. I was working at a pizza place,gay boss grabbed my penis,I'm 43year old man,afraid to work,then got a head injury from brother hitting me in the head with half full beer can,get meds for headache,also blacked out while urinating months before,and split forehead open,2head injuries in one year,can't work

  13. Is so disgusting how in these comments I see people telling people it’s there fault listen I was 13 in jean and a sweatshirt so u can’t say it’s because of the way I dressed

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